Our lives are like a composite piece of art…

 

You probably do not realise it but each of these pictures is a collage of more than three images layered to create one. Like our lives, each layer adds some depth, some colour or some texture to the overall effect. Without even one of the layers the image would not be the same.

How many situations in life do we go through that are dark? These are our contrasting moments, our opportunities to grow, to learn and to expand our understanding. Without them our vision of life would not be the same. So too, the light areas are our bright lights that lift us off the page and highlight our characteristics, our thoughts and our ideals.

What is the image of your life looking like right now? Is it like one of my pieces where I had many of the layers in place but it just didn’t feel finished because it was missing a layer or two?

Whatever place you are at just know that today you are building a complex composite of your life. Today is the accumulation of a thousand yesterdays. You are all of those yesterdays. They are what defines you, what makes you special. They are your story! They are the image of your life.

The beauty is that you have a role to play in what the next layers are that will be layed upon your life. You can choose their opacity, their colour and their placement. Build wisely the image of your life that you will be able to view with pleasure, just as I view these and sigh in satisfaction.

Common Ground

When you are young, life is simple

You know everything
You are willing to try it all
And rules were made to be broken

But as you get older, life is more complex
You realise how little you know
You are less willing to try new things
And rules take on real meaning because they keep you safe

Wouldn’t it be great if there was a middle road
Where risk taking was okay
But rules were respected
And knowledge simply shared and valued

Reflection: Cling to what is good

“In this life there will always be people who are sent to help you to grow…

Some you will love for it, for they are the fertiliser and the water that nourishes the soil and gives you sustenance. Others you will hate for it for those are the ones that prune you back, they are the rope that tethers you so you grow straight.  But at the end of the day, just so long as there are not too many who are weeds, those who want to choke the life out of you, you will flourish.  So I say be wise and recognise who are the weeds so you can get them out of the way early on.  Don’t resist the hand of the pruner or the tethering which is for your own benefit.  Cling to what is good.”

 

A Whisper of Love by Hayley Solich

A whisper of love passed my heart today
Was the memory of my precious one
I wanted to wrap it around me
To keep it forever

But the whisper could not be held nor contained
As I was left behind
Gasping from the pain of it’s passing
I felt my heart would break again
Into a million little peices

How long will I feel this never ending ache
This drawing of my insides out
Is this my damnation?
To always remember the essence of them near
But be denied the reality?

In faith I draw love to me
It’s sweet balm surrounds my heart
It’s precious misty dew falls, like the tears on my cheeks
And I again become soaked, renewed
And able to bear this lifetime of longing
Wrap me in the Father’s warm embrace
Let me feel His touch upon my face
For with him holding me near
I can face this void of loss and pain that wants to possess me

Life is a Mystery by Hayley Solich

A reflection on the cycle of life…

We take our first steps, aided

Our tiny fingers curled in the palm of a larger guiding hand

We are fearless in our quest for indepence and they are the centre of our world

As we enter our primary years

We become less comfortable with the hand holding

Eager to find our own way of doing things we keep them around for our moments of fear

Then we enter our higher school years

We wouldn’t dream of holding the hand of those who have lovingly guided us

We demand to do things our own way, pushing them to the side, but occasionally seeking their guidance

Then after we have tasted indepence and found a mate, the birth of our own children causes us to hold their hand again, then for us to hold another’s

After squeezing the life out of our parent’s in childbirth, our large hands are now curling around the palm of our own little one

And we are encouraging them to gain their indepence

And so the process revolves until we are old

And if we are lucky, our frail wrinkly hand is now grasping the smooth, strong, young hand of our grandchild

And we must learn again how to be happy to be dependent

When Babies Die

Finally at 40 Life Begins…

A promo video that I have created to help promote this wonderful National Magazine.

Bar Coded by God

Have you ever stopped to consider why you might have a unique finger print?  This article considers this from a Christian perspective.

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A little poetry magic – Sing Softly To Me

A friend of mine from Twitter reminded me that once upon a time I was a rather clever poet. So I thought I’d share a couple of my poems on here.

Sing Softly To Me
by Hayley Solich

As the moon dips down

to meet the sea,

sing softly to me,

softly, softly.

A lullaby of love,

filled with peace.

Your whispering breath

tease my ear with sweet release.

As the fire builds

within my bones

sing softly to me,

softly, softly.

Let touch be your voice,

your lyrics my skin,

I hear your heart singing

sweet like a violin.

As we meet heaven’s gates

in rapturous embrace

sing softly to me,

softly, softly.

Our merger complete,

two souls now united.

Completely enmeshed,

our desire is requited.

One step…two steps…three steps…closer to my dream!

When Danette Hibberd placed a copy of Finally at 40 Life Begins magazine in my hands in 2008, I was immediately drawn to the magazine. I simply loved the concept and it was so closely aligned to the magazine that I founded in Perth and had to walk away from that I felt a huge tug on my heart.

18 months later, I came into contact with the magazine again and this time, instead of ignoring the huge tug on my heart I decided to make a contact and see if they were looking for writers.

At this stage, I had just started a new business, so was very business with websites and design work, however, I wanted to keep my hand in the writing field.

Amanda Gelsi, the editor at the time was very encouraging and welcomed me with open arms, giving me three feature articles to write straight away.

Then when Amanda left after completing the Winter Edition, my connection moved to the Publishing Editor, Jenny Jacob. As Jenny and I shared our stories, we saw the parallels in what was my magazine and what is her magazine. We completely understood each other’s journey and a strong bond was forged.

So today, after two editions, I have been appointed Assistant Editor of national Australian magazine, Finally at 40 Life Begins and I am 90% through editing the Spring Edition. I have loved every second of every hour of effort I have applied. There is so much great information in the magazine and as I am forced to read all the content I am learning so much from the contributors.

I want to let you know that I believe there is a divine element to this connection. When I left Pearls Women’s Magazine in 2007, it was not because I didn’t want to do the magazine anymore, but rather, because it was not going to be financially viable for a few years and my family were putting pressure on me not to give my time and effort to it with so little return from it. So I see this new connection as God’s way of blessing me. On a week when I was in a lull in my business I stopped and stilled myself and asked the question, “What do I do God to get more money in?” The response came, “Sit still and wait.” By the end of the week, I had two new website projects and Jenny had called me to offer me the Assistant Editor’s role with the magazine. Now that is when you know you have made a divine connection and have heard correctly!

I look forward to seeing what the future brings…it’s a wonderful opportunity to showcase all those gorgeous girls that I know and love who have amazing life stories.